Monthly Archives: August 2013
Puzzle Pieces
I sometimes think about parts people played in last year’s mess after I left my ex. One thing that bugs me is how a guy named Chris got involved. I knew Chris in 2011– or rather, I knew his girlfriend. … Continue reading
Forced Teaming: an abuser’s tactic
Upon reading Gavin de Becker’s The Gift of Fear, I’m reading chapter 4: Survival Signals. In an early chapter, the author tells the story of a client who was raped and was asked by the author to relate what red … Continue reading